You're getting dressed for the day and sliding your favourite fitted jeans over your hips, but when you go to button them, there's a small problem. Those perfect jeans, which have never before failed you, suddenly. don't. fit. Sure, you can try to suck it in for now, hope for the best. And when that fails, use the spare hair bobble you will now and forevermore have on hand to thread through the hole and latch around the button.
If lunch has come and gone, and your slightly too-fitted, yet perfect pants from this morning now feel like they are cutting off your circulation, no spare bobble in sight, don’t panic! You are not hurting the baby. See if you can find a rubber band, or ask a friend for a hair tie, or hurry to your car, get safely buckled in, and then unbutton those pants that will no longer do. We won't tell anyone how you let it all hang out on your drive home. Also, it is time to start thinking about maternity wear. Check out our favourite maternity leggings.
If you are looking to wear your regular clothes for a while longer, consider purchasing a belly band. It’s essentially a stretchy ring of fabric that fits over your stomach and the top of your pants, allowing you to wear your regular pants while holding your unbuttoned trousers in place.
Keeping In Your Clothes
Feel free to get creative and experiment with your own clothing too. A stretchy cotton tube top may work the same way. You'll also commonly find that friends who aren't currently pregnant, but plan to be be again, are willing to loan their maternity clothes out in the interim. If you borrow from someone, be sure to remember what belongs to them and whether or not they want it back. Keep in mind as you shop that you will get bigger. Don't buy everything early on, because you'll find that the shirts, which seem massive right now, may barely cover your belly a few months from now. Just like your tummy, your wardrobe needs room to grow!
Remember to take your prenatal vitamins, and eat plenty of fruits, vegetables, and protein.
Are you taking pictures of your growing belly? Recording the images, and your weekly experiences, in your pregnancy journal?
If you aren't feeling very sexy, or if sexy time with your partner has taken the back seat, know that this is as normal as it is different for everyone. Some expectant mums find they feel quite sexual at times, compared to other women who find difficult to get into that mood when they're mostly just exhausted. Most women will get that feeling back during the second trimester.