Have you signed up for a childbirth class yet? If you are thinking about it, it's not too soon to start looking at what's offered near you. Limited class sizes tend to fill up more quickly than you'd expect. Some classes will last a couple of days, while others span over a couple of weeks or months.
Finding a Birth Class
Do your research before deciding which birthing style is best for you. There are many techniques, such as hypnobirthing, water birthing, and the lamaze technique.
The Lamaze Technique teaches that childbirth is a normal, natural, and healthy process. It empowers women through education and support. This method should help you approach childbirth with confidence and explores ways to find strength, or comfort, during delivery, using various techniques for relaxation and eliminating counterproductive responses (like tensing up).
Write in your pregnancy journal - what do you think you are having? A boy? A girl? Write down your prediction!
By week 18, you’re probably anxiously awaiting your upcoming scan. An ultrasound is usually scheduled sometime around week 20. The midwife will use this time to check your baby's growth, fluid levels, heart rate, and movement, look for any abnormalities, AND determine the gender of your little one! You should be able to bring your partner with you. You should also be able to get photos and/or a video of the ultrasound.
Should you find out the gender?
There are reasons for and against finding out the gender at this point in time. Knowing ahead of time can allow for nursery personalisation, gender-specific name selections, toys, and clothing, and gives you the ability to genuinely picture what life after childbirth might look like.
Alternatively, keeping your little one's gender a surprise builds suspense and gives parents something truly exciting to look forward to. You and your partner should come together when determining which path is right for both of you. And it's possible your baby will make the decision for you, because if he or she isn't ready to reveal their private parts, the most practiced sonographer won't be able to uncross those little legs!
If your baby is uncooperative, or if you just want to see more, you might choose to get a private, 3D ultrasound. This more expensive photoshoot can be tempting, especially if your doctor-ordered ultrasound revealed less than you'd hoped for.